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Simz Ngema Opens Up About Healing After Dumi Masilela's Death: "I Learned To Live My Truth"


 Simz Ngema Opens Up About Healing After Dumi Masilela's Death: "I Learned To Live My Truth"



South African actress Simphiwe "Simz" Ngema has shared her emotional journey of healing following the tragic death of her husband, Dumi Masilela, in 2017. The Forever Yena star, who has since welcomed a second child with partner Tino Chinyani, reflected on grief, moving forward, and ignoring public judgment in a candid interview.

Simz’s Healing Journey

  • Described Masilela as "heaven-sent", comparing him to her late father.

  • Admitted there was no divine sign telling her when to move on—she followed her heart.

  • Emphasized self-acceptance: "I’ve learned to live my truth and do what works for me."


Facing Public Scrutiny

  • Anticipated criticism for rebuilding her life but chose not to internalize it:
    "I’d already thought of what people would say... It doesn’t affect me."

  • Prioritized her emotional capacity over opinions: "What you’re facing is already big enough."

Building New Happiness

  • Now focuses on her family with Chinyani while honoring Masilela’s memory.

  • Previously explained how she balances grief with joy: "I mourn Dumi while living fully for my children."

Public Reaction

  • Supporters praised her resilience and honesty.

  • Others debated societal expectations for widows moving forward.


Final Note: Simz’s story highlights the complexity of grief and the courage to redefine life after loss.

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